I always listen to worship music on the way to work and try to pray for my kids, my husband, the day. . . you know -- life.  I've got my Ipod set to a worship playlist that keeps getting longer and longer every month.  But something weird happened a couple days ago, and it happened again today.

My "shuffled" playlist kept returning to a certain song both days, within five or so minutes of each other.  The song was "God is Able".

The first time I heard it repeated, I thought, Hmmm.  That's weird.  Did I have that set right?

I did.  The song wasn't looped, and the playlist was still on shuffle.  Weird.

Then it replayed as I neared my school.  -- What?  I'm hearing this song for a third time in thirty minutes?  How can that be?

And then I thought about the words:  God is with us, God is on our side, He will make a way... our God is able.

Ohhh.....yeah.  I hear you, Lord.


He knew how tense I was.  He knew how I needed to give everything to Him.

Because I sure can't handle my burdens.

But He is able.

---Teresa

Pure worship

Sometimes my daughter's childlike joy in her Father leaves me speechless.  Like last night.

Kristen, Rick and I went with our youngest daughter, Sarah, to her church in her college town.  The worship was just that -- worshipful.  Kristen was by my side, clinging to my arm, not able to read the words on the screen, but fully a part of the mood of the room, excited by what she was witnessing.  At times I would turn to her, especially on repetitive parts of the songs, and sing so that maybe she would sing along, but she didn't.  She would smile into my eyes with a huge, toothy smile and nod.  Her delight added to my own worship experience.

And then came the song, The Stand.  I love that song.  If done right, it's so moving, so climactic and says exactly what my heart wants to tell the Lord.  That I stand with arms high and heart abandoned, in awe of the one who gave it all.  I shifted Kristen's tight hold of my right arm and I grasped her hand with my left one, because I knew I wanted to raise my arm when I sang those words.

The church sang the song quietly, reverently, the college kids around us raising their hands, nodding, praying, gently rocking to the crescendoing beat of the anthem.  The chorus finally arrived, and I raised my arm as I sang the words, and beside me Kristen joyfully, wordlessly, raised her arm high as well.

I looked at her to see if she did this to mimic me, or what -- and was surprised.  She had so much joy on her face.   She looked at me, her smile so big and her posture uninhibited, as if saying, isn't this great?  Tears sprang to my eyes.  This was pure worship.  She did not sing the words, but she took it all in and the words reverberated in her soul.

I couldn't sing the words, either.  I could only whisper them and be grateful for the gift of this special adult child who allows me to see little glimpses of heaven at times like this.

 I'll stand
With arms high and heart abandoned
In awe of the one who gave it all
I'll stand
My soul Lord to you surrendered
All I am is yours

(Hillsong United)

Reading posts from members of my church who are in Vietnam spreading God's love to those who have never experienced it reminds me of the summer of 2005 when I went to Russia.  I went to a small town outside of Chelny, a town whose name I can't begin to spell but it sounds like Nizh-na-kamps.  It's something I'll never forget, that's for sure, even though I can't master the spelling of the town.  Eleven days of  blow-my-hair-back-God-what-are-you-doing-here-questions, being put in situations I never dreamed of, being stretched spiritually like I was a piece of play-doh being molded almost hourly.

It was awesome.  And not for the faint of heart.

God had to prepare me beforehand, as only He can, so that I could face the demands put upon me.  And there were a lot.  I was the only woman who went to my town on my team of four.  The other women on the mission team were in other towns in Russia.

I was also the only newbie on my team -- the only member who had never been on a mission trip before.  It was even my first trip outside the U.S.!

Once we got to our little town, after almost three days travel on plane, train and van, we slept briefly in our hotel after being greeted by a contingent of the church we were there to serve.  Then that evening we were taken to a market, where we paid for roasted chicken, tomatoes, cucumbers, cheese and bread and took it to have picnic-style by the river while we met our translators and the pastors of the church and heard their assignments for us.

Our awesome welcoming committee decked out in traditional fare!

Our first night in Russia, such a simple, delicious meal by the river

The four of us knew we would evangelize, though unfortunately our team leader had not brought our Evangicubes from the U.S.  We would have to rely on the spoken word through our translators.  I was blissfully ignorant about this, but it bothered the others, I could tell.

The pastors informed us that we would be doing street evangelism, and that we would also be holding sessions at night in a restaurant that we would be inviting people to during the day -- sessions where one of the guys would present the gospel and then there would be a question/answer time.   Perhaps all week.  We would see.

The church baptizes believers in the river

Also, we were to go to visit an orphanage, a special needs center, and a cultural center.  And the church itself would gather and have a special baptism in the river and a picnic to follow.

Me with teenage artists at the cultural center

Very poignant, visiting a special needs hospital

And then they looked at me.  You, Teresa, you we want to speak to the women at the laundromat.

Some of the ladies of the laundry -- and what a very nice laundry it was!

Laundromat?

My new friends who heard my testimony over lunch, even when my translator was so moved she had to leave the room  -- so  the ladies and I just looked at each other. I shrugged and gestured to our food.  "I guess we just have to eat! No talking now!"  They laughed kindly and did what I did, which was dig in! 

Well, as it turns out, it's not the Kwik Wash variety that we have here in the states.  And the assistant pastor worked there during the week and had witnessed to the 7 or 8 women on staff there.  To no avail. So it was up to ME to convince them about Jesus.

No pressure there.

The representative of the women of the church, giving me a gift of appreciation for speaking to them.  I guess I didn't turn them off too badly!  

Oh, and the next night I was to address the women of the church.  Tell them how to behave.

Oh my gosh . . . are you kidding me? I thought.

A sweet lady in a nursing home facility.

And during the day, lots of street evangelizing.

After an impromptu speaking opportunity that I just walked into -- ". . . and how is it in YOUR country?  Come stand up here and tell us."
Wow.

My knees, even as I sat on the banks of that river, felt like they were buckling underneath me.

Where there are kids, there are teachers . . . and these kids were so wonderful!  

But still I smiled and nodded.  Sure, I said.

That evening as I prepared for bed I prayed God would help me.  Because I was SOOOO not up for this.  What in the world was I doing here?  God had sent the wrong person.  Beth Moore should have come instead of me. I felt like a weak little kitten when I should have been a roaring lion ready to go out and gather some souls for the Lord. I read and read God's word, took notes long into the night,  trying to come up with what I was going to say to both groups of women and -- oh yeah, all those people along the street!  I woke up extra early, the Russian sun streaming onto my face at four in the morning.  That's when I started sobbing -- I couldn't even get any sleep, much less catch a break around here.  I was at my wit's end.

But that's where God wanted me -- totally dependent upon Him.

I remember kneeling, crying, being so homesick, so regretting that I'd come to this demanding country. "I can't do this, Lord."

I don't know how long it took me to realize that I felt better.  I crawled back into my bed knowing everything was going to be not just fine, but . . . taken care of.

And it was.  God took my burden upon His shoulders, where it should have been all along.  The Holy Spirit is a much better speaker than I am, and He did the speaking for me when I spoke to the ladies at the laundromat, and later in the week, when I spoke to the ladies of the church (that was by far the harder of the two!).  And street evangelizing?  It was easier than I thought, because I just allowed God's love to come through every fiber of my being every time I spoke to someone.  Not that it wasn't challenging.  And there were so many challenges!  But each time someone turned away, it wasn't about me.  It was about their rejection of God, and it made me sad for them.  And when I had to speak impromptu in public on more than one occasion, I could do it, because I was empowered by the Most Powerful One!

How many people were saved?  One.  My translator.

Praise God for Kate's redeemed soul.  God knew.

Me and Kate

big picture living

You gotta love the Proverbs.  They're so clear cut, especially when our lives aren't.

For example, ever been in a situation where your friends are laughing at something that just isn't really funny and they expect you to join in?  Maybe at the expense of someone's feelings?

Just think of these verses:

"The crooked man is an abomination to the Lord;
But He is intimate with the upright.
The curse of the Lord is on the house of the wicked,
But He blesses the dwelling of the righteous.
Though He scoffs at the scoffers,
Yet He gives grace to the afflicted.
The wise will inherit honor,
But fools display dishonor."     Proverbs 3:32-35

I want to be the upright one, the righteous, even when it's uncomfortable here on earth.  And it definitely is.

But let's remember, this time on earth is fleeting.  The big picture is eternity.  The uncomfortable situations here, when our friends expect us to do unwise and ungodly things with them, those are things we'll have to account for with the God of the Universe.  Maybe we -- I -- should stop and think before I join in.  Everything has a consequence.

We are blessed with a God who encourages us to be righteous -- Teresa

Welcome to the neighborhood #2...or maybe not

Okay.  I lied.

Well, no.  It wasn't a lie, really.  I just glossed over the truth.  Like the lip gloss I wore in seventh grade, I made our neighbor situation look all shiny and lip-smacking good in my effort to overcome the invisible borders that exist from lawn to lawn.

See, I think I know what's holding us back from making friends in this semi-new neighborhood.

It's not that we don't look good.  Nope.  Got that one covered.  Our clothes are clean, hemmed, pressed, hair in place, smiles unflagging.

It's not that our lawn is uncared for.  Uh-uh.  This year we called Chem-Lawn just to make sure we're contributing to the kelly green grass that the neighborhood is known for.  My hubby breaks out in a sweat if he's a day late in mowing.

I'm not kidding about that.

No, it's not what's on the outside.  It's what happened on the inside of our house.

It's the screams that our neighbors undoubtedly heard day after day throughout this year.  This hard, hard year.

See, our oldest daughter -- our twenty-six year old -- is autistic, and this year we had a hard time getting a medication to control her anger.  She would come home from work, get off the bus, walk into the house and start demanding things.  From the moment she got home until the moment she went to bed she was irritable, and most days that irritability moved quickly into anger, loud anger, especially if we didn't do exactly what she wanted to do.  So many days she would scream at the top of her lungs and I would wonder what our neighbors were thinking, and if they were calling the police to come investigate.  Praise God we never got a knock at our door.

But during those dark days -- which have thankfully passed -- I kept thinking, What chance in the world do we have of making friends with our neighbors?  This was going to be our chance at sharing Christ in our neighborhood.

Who knows?  Maybe it's the memory of those screams that are keeping our neighbors at arm's length.  Or maybe God can work beyond those memories and forge great friendships in the future.

I hope so.

We're blessed -- Teresa

Welcome to the neighborhood #1

You know, we moved to our neighborhood a year ago, and I can't say that we know our neighbors any better than we did the day we moved in.

That's pitiful.

Oh, now I can tell you all about them, probably.  I can tell you about Charles' family gatherings next door and how his cute little grandkids dressed up on Easter and had Easter egg hunts in his backyard, and how the family laughed and ate dinner together under his tent awning a few weeks ago, and how Charles seems to be losing a little weight.  We wave and say hi to him -- he seems like a great guy -- but I have no idea if his wife lives there any more, or if his health is holding up . . . and he's just yards away!

And the kid next door on the other side -- I don't even know his name, but I saw him in his graduation gown, and I congratulated him -- does that count for anything?

And across the street, I know that Richard and Elizabeth have toddlers, and a therapist comes every single day to work with their youngest.  We wave and are very friendly . . . when we're outside.

So how do you go beyond just waving?

How do you cross that unspoken boundary between neighbors to becoming friends, like in the "old days"?  I remember my neighborhood that I grew up in being like a family!  We all knew each other, and when I grew up, all the neighbors came to my wedding shower.  Even the ones I wasn't so fond of! Grin.

I want to be that kind of neighbor.  Not the kind I am now.

Anybody out there know how to do it?  Because I sure don't -- our last neighborhood held the world record, I think:  we lived there for 13 years, and barely knew our next door neighbors.

So I'm up for any advice you can give, folks!

The question to ask

In my adult life, I've had some bumps and hurdles.  Some were little bitty bumps, some were great big mountain-looking hurdles.  Each time I've had those bumps and hurdles in my path, I've asked, "Why, God?"  And God lets me say it.  Because he's big enough to take my anger, my screaming, my yelling, my bitter tears, and my eventual remorse and confession.

But each time I get past my obstacle and on down the road, I look back at what I've been through and marvel at what God did.

Not at the trial that He allowed.

I marvel at the blessings He worked through the messiness of my life.  I wonder at the beauty that He brought from the ashes of the horrible situation.  I praise Him for the way He showed Himself loyal to me even when I was not loyal to Him.

What a loving God.

I marvel, too, that I ever asked why.  What I should have asked was, how can I know you better through this, Lord?  What will you make me through this?  Who do you want me to become?

I can ask all kinds of questions, but in hindsight,  WHY is the least important.  Because who really cares why?

Isaiah 26:4 says,"Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal."


Be blessed in Him -- Teresa